I decided to do a Christmas letter this year because there is so much going on that a Christmas card can not capture it all.
You may be asking yourself why is this letter called “A DMX Christmas”? Well because my family has decided to test me this year and as my good friend and rapper DMX would say,
“Y’all gon’ make me lose my mind up in here, up in here
Y’all gon’ make me go all out up in here, up in here
Y’all gon’ make me act a fool up in here, up in here
Y’all gon’ make me lose my cool up in here, up in here”
The girls are both doing well. Huxley has started full time pre k and so far, so good. I haven’t been called into the principals office, we haven’t gotten sick, and no reports of lice thus far. However, she is upset that she hasn’t gotten student of the week yet. Don’t worry we have a mandatory parent/teacher conference coming up and I’ll get down to the bottom of it. I have a feeling she’ll be student of the week in the early part of next year.
Langley started a 3 hour a day, 3 day a week preschool program this year as well. Honestly, I’m more surprised that I haven’t been called in for a parent/teacher conference with her. The other day she walked into the house, looked at the cat, pointed her finger at him and said, “Lucky, I’m tired of your sh!t”. I have no clue where she got this but if I had to guess I would say her dad. (Hey, this is my letter. I’m not going to incriminate myself.) I have zero control over her and every day when I drop her off I just pray that since she’s still so little her speech is still too garbled to actual make out what she’s saying. Langley’s favorite song right now is “Congratulations” by Post Malone. I am both ashamed and proud of this.
Outtakes from our Christmas card pictures |
Typical Langley |
Nothing says "Merry Christmas" like these little faces. #blessed #myeverything |
My children's main motiving factor in life is candy. I just told them, "You will never taste candy again in your life if you don't smile for this picture!" Mommin' ain't easy. |
Both the girls have started dance. At first it was just Huxley but then Langley found out and since I have zero control of her she started too. Their Christmas performance is coming up and I expect it to be a complete waste of time and money since every week I ask them what they learned in dance and they look me dead in eye and say, “Nothing.” Next year, I’m just going to take the money we would have put into dance and light it on fire. That way at least my Wednesday will be free.
Me - I’m tired and on the verge of snapping at any moment. I’m pregnant (surprise!) and so I’ve decided to institute a self imposed, situationally convenient bedrest. Our house looks like a tornado went through it and I absolutely don’t care. At 34, this is my LAST pregnancy and I plan on milking it for all it’s worth.
This little peanut will be joining our circus this May. |
Two every proud big sisters. |
Second surprise - it’s a boy! Prayers for him because with three extremely strong woman in the house I don’t know that he has a fighting chance. Also, we’re having trouble coming up with boy names. I had the perfect girl name picked out but for some reason Karl has a strong opinion now that he’s about to have his first son. At this point, I’m ready to give him Karl’s middle name and my maiden name and call him Oskar Meyer Schlomer. We could call him Lil Smokey.
Karl is doing well. Work is stressful and he’s losing a little more hair but we still love him. Just trying to incorporate more hats into his wardrobe. We’re hoping he can go to Sea School in the New Year so he can move up in a position that will be less physically demanding and more financially rewarding. Sea School with require Karl to be gone from the end of December to the middle of March. Prayers for my mother as she will be the one who picks up Karl's slack during this challenging time. The girls both prefer Karl over me and I’m not even mad about it. I prefer Karl over me too. He’s a pretty great guy.
Lastly, we had a new addition in August. Lucky “The Cat” Schlomer - the girls named him. He’s a stray that found his way under Karl’s truck one rainy day and conned me and Langley into loving him. He’s basically the best cat ever. He doesn’t appreciate when I dress him up but I tell him what I tell Karl.
Halloween cat - it took me a little while before I realized I missed a big opportunity when we didn't name him Salem. |
Christmas AF |
We hope this letter brought you a little laugh during this stressful holiday season. We are tremendously blessed and so thankful for the life God has given us. We hope you and your family are doing well and pray the New Year brings new blessings for us all.
Sincerely,
The Schlomers